BJ Fadem & Associates, APC is a Certified Family Law Specialist

Our Law Firm Is Dedicated To Defending Your Rights

Have you found yourself suddenly to be single parent and the Father of the child refuses to accept any responsibility? Does your future now seem so complicated, overwhelming, and feel unstable? You may have family, friends and other support to be there for many of the challenges you will or are facing. Yet, you may need to take further steps to ensure the welfare of your child[ren] as they grow up throughout the years.

Being the only responsible parent for your child[ren] is not impossible, just not the only option. The Father of your child[ren] also has responsibilities.

Have you found yourself suddenly confronted with the prospect that you are now or have been a Father of a child[ren]? Do you see your future is now so complicated, overwhelming, and feel unstable? You may have family, friends and other support to be there for many of the challenges you or will be facing. Yet, you may need to take further steps to either prove you are or are not the Father of your child[ren] to ensure the welfare of your child[ren] as they grow up throughout the years.

When it comes to the Legal issue of Paternity to prove parenthood, our Law Firm will be your advocate. It can be based upon DNA or other legal factors. If you feel you are not the Father of the child[ren] you may demand a DNA test.

If you never married the Mother of your child[ren], you would have to establish Paternity and file a Motion with the Court for Custody and Visitation.

Even if the Father is not employed and has no finances or assets, proving DNA may ensure and establish that when the Father’s circumstances change in the future, so will yours and your child[ren’s] financially.

Determining Paternity of your child[ren] today has become both simpler and increasingly complex; with the advent of DNA testing making proof easier, while sperm bank donors and Second Parent Adoptions, making it more complicated.

Your issue may be time sensitive, please contact our Law Firm to set-up your Initial Consultation.

Please read the FAQs’ prior to your Initial Consultation.

We file in all California Counties and Cities. In addition, BJ Fadem represents Clients throughout California, the United States and foreign countries with regard to Hague Matters.

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Professional and Skilled. Great Law Office! Mr. BJ Fadem is a knowledgeable and skilled attorney with great experience. Thank you!
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Mr Fadem is extremely knowledgeable of the laws. Felt he was very in tuned to my needs and fought those. Would definitely would use again. HIGHLY RECOMMEND

Sharon

I have worked with Mr. Fadem on many occasions and he is as intelligent, professional, and dedicated as they come. His knowledge of family law is outstanding and I refer him to anyone who needs a specialized and highly skilled family law attorney.

Emily

The reason I return time and time again is knowledgeable employees and the respect I am treated with. I also think that the noncondensending matter in which I was treated was a prime factor.

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Did you know? In California, either parent can request to legally change a child’s last name—but it requires court approval and sometimes both parents’ consent.

This often comes up during adoption, custody disputes, or when a parent wants to establish or reaffirm a deeper bond. The court's focus? Always the best interests of the child—not just what the parents want.

At FADEM, we’ve guided countless families through name changes as part of broader legal transitions like second-parent adoption, custody agreements, or divorce.

Have questions about changing a child’s name or updating legal documents? We’re here to help.

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Today is the International Day of Families — and we’re here to remind you:
Family isn’t defined by blood. It’s defined by love, care, and commitment.

From LGBTQ+ couples to chosen families, guardians, and step-parents — California law has tools to protect your rights, but you have to know how to use them.

Need help understanding your legal options?
📞 Let’s talk about your family’s future.

It Just Takes a Call 
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#YouDeserveSupport #ChosenFamilyIsFamily #FamilyLawMatters #FademLaw #LegalHelpCA #LegalProtection #SanJoseLawyer #LegalAdvice #DivorceSupport #ChildCustody #FamilyMediation #LawyerLife #SanJoseAttorney #FamilyRights #LegalServices #DivorceLaw #DomesticRelations #CustodyBattle #FamilyAdvocate #SanJoseLegal #BuildingFamilies #Adoption #FademLawOffice
Family law matters often involve intricate details—financial records, expert testimony, evolving regulations. While many solo attorneys do their best, a collaborative team can offer:

🔹 Diverse Expertise: Specialists in adoption, custody, support, and more all contribute their insights.
🔹 Ongoing Training: Regular in-house workshops keep our team current on California law and best practices.
🔹 Resource Depth: Access to research assistants, investigators, and expert witnesses ensures no stone is left unturned.

At FADEM, our multi-disciplinary approach means your case benefits from the combined strength of seasoned professionals. For complicated family matters, trust the team that has the bandwidth—and the experience—to handle every angle. Let’s explore your options together.

It Just Takes a Call 
fademlaw.com 

#FADEMLaw #TeamApproach #FamilyLawExperts #CollaborativeLaw #LegalExcellence #LegalHelpCA #LegalProtection #SanJoseLawyer #LegalAdvice #DivorceSupport #ChildCustody #FamilyMediation #LawyerLife #SanJoseAttorney #FamilyRights #LegalServices #DivorceLaw #DomesticRelations #CustodyBattle #FamilyAdvocate #SanJoseLegal #BuildingFamilies #Adoption #FademLawOffice
While temporary support can follow local guideline calculators, permanent or long-term spousal support is where things get nuanced — judges consider over a dozen factors like the length of the marriage, each party’s earning capacity, and even the standard of living during the relationship.

⚖️ What’s more? Judges have broad discretion. That’s why skilled legal guidance matters.

At BJ Fadem & Associates, we help you understand your rights, and protect your future.

Thinking about separation or divorce? Let’s talk.

It Just Takes a Call 
fademlaw.com 

#SpousalSupport #CaliforniaFamilyLaw #DivorceSupport #FamilyLawSpecialist #KnowYourRights #AlimonyFacts #BJFADEMlaw #LegalHelpCA #LegalProtection #SanJoseLawyer #LegalAdvice #DivorceSupport #ChildCustody #FamilyMediation #LawyerLife #SanJoseAttorney #FamilyRights #LegalServices #DivorceLaw #DomesticRelations #CustodyBattle #FamilyAdvocate #SanJoseLegal #BuildingFamilies #Adoption #FademLawOffice
Did you know? In California, either parent can request to legally change a child’s last name—but it requires court approval and sometimes both parents’ consent.

This often comes up during adoption, custody disputes, or when a parent wants to establish or reaffirm a deeper bond. The court's focus? Always the best interests of the child—not just what the parents want.

At FADEM, we’ve guided countless families through name changes as part of broader legal transitions like second-parent adoption, custody agreements, or divorce.

Have questions about changing a child’s name or updating legal documents? We’re here to help.

It Just Takes a Call 
fademlaw.com 

#FamilyLawFact #ChildNameChange #CustodySupport #CaliforniaFamilyLaw #FADEMLaw #LegalFacts #ParentingAndLaw #LegalProtection #SanJoseLawyer #LegalAdvice #DivorceSupport #ChildCustody #FamilyMediation #LawyerLife #SanJoseAttorney #FamilyRights #LegalServices #DivorceLaw #DomesticRelations #CustodyBattle #FamilyAdvocate #SanJoseLegal #BuildingFamilies #Adoption #FademLawOffice
Today is the International Day of Families — and we’re here to remind you:
Family isn’t defined by blood. It’s defined by love, care, and commitment.

From LGBTQ+ couples to chosen families, guardians, and step-parents — California law has tools to protect your rights, but you have to know how to use them.

Need help understanding your legal options?
📞 Let’s talk about your family’s future.

It Just Takes a Call 
fademlaw.com 

#YouDeserveSupport #ChosenFamilyIsFamily #FamilyLawMatters #FademLaw #LegalHelpCA #LegalProtection #SanJoseLawyer #LegalAdvice #DivorceSupport #ChildCustody #FamilyMediation #LawyerLife #SanJoseAttorney #FamilyRights #LegalServices #DivorceLaw #DomesticRelations #CustodyBattle #FamilyAdvocate #SanJoseLegal #BuildingFamilies #Adoption #FademLawOffice
Family law matters often involve intricate details—financial records, expert testimony, evolving regulations. While many solo attorneys do their best, a collaborative team can offer:

🔹 Diverse Expertise: Specialists in adoption, custody, support, and more all contribute their insights.
🔹 Ongoing Training: Regular in-house workshops keep our team current on California law and best practices.
🔹 Resource Depth: Access to research assistants, investigators, and expert witnesses ensures no stone is left unturned.

At FADEM, our multi-disciplinary approach means your case benefits from the combined strength of seasoned professionals. For complicated family matters, trust the team that has the bandwidth—and the experience—to handle every angle. Let’s explore your options together.

It Just Takes a Call 
fademlaw.com 

#FADEMLaw #TeamApproach #FamilyLawExperts #CollaborativeLaw #LegalExcellence #LegalHelpCA #LegalProtection #SanJoseLawyer #LegalAdvice #DivorceSupport #ChildCustody #FamilyMediation #LawyerLife #SanJoseAttorney #FamilyRights #LegalServices #DivorceLaw #DomesticRelations #CustodyBattle #FamilyAdvocate #SanJoseLegal #BuildingFamilies #Adoption #FademLawOffice
While temporary support can follow local guideline calculators, permanent or long-term spousal support is where things get nuanced — judges consider over a dozen factors like the length of the marriage, each party’s earning capacity, and even the standard of living during the relationship.

⚖️ What’s more? Judges have broad discretion. That’s why skilled legal guidance matters.

At BJ Fadem & Associates, we help you understand your rights, and protect your future.

Thinking about separation or divorce? Let’s talk.

It Just Takes a Call 
fademlaw.com 

#SpousalSupport #CaliforniaFamilyLaw #DivorceSupport #FamilyLawSpecialist #KnowYourRights #AlimonyFacts #BJFADEMlaw #LegalHelpCA #LegalProtection #SanJoseLawyer #LegalAdvice #DivorceSupport #ChildCustody #FamilyMediation #LawyerLife #SanJoseAttorney #FamilyRights #LegalServices #DivorceLaw #DomesticRelations #CustodyBattle #FamilyAdvocate #SanJoseLegal #BuildingFamilies #Adoption #FademLawOffice
A child custody evaluation can seem daunting, but being well-prepared can make all the difference. Here are some tips to help you confidently navigate the process:

🔹 Document Daily Routines: Keep detailed records of your involvement in your child's life—school, activities, and healthcare.
🔹 Keep Communication Records: Save emails, texts, and logs that show your dedication to co-parenting.
🔹 Be Honest and Calm: Approach evaluations with transparency and composure; your authenticity is key.
🔹 Prioritize Your Child’s Best Interests: Always align your actions and statements with your child's well-being.

Fadem Law is here to guide you through every step of the custody process, ensuring your rights and your child's best interests are protected. Let us help you prepare for a successful custody evaluation.

It Just Takes a Call 
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That’s right! Under California law, children 14 years or older can express their custody preferences—and the court must consider them if it's in the child’s best interest.

Their voice matters, but it’s just one part of the bigger picture. At Fadem Law, we make sure every custody case puts the child’s well-being first. 💙

It Just Takes a Call 
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