BJ Fadem & Associates, APC is a Certified Family Law Specialist

Our Law Firm Is Dedicated To Defending Your Rights

You and the other part[ies’] in your legal issue are eager to settle your matter and are agreeable. However, you need a Mediator to settle and to assist all parties involved all your legal issues in your matter. Where do you turn to? Do you draw up your own agreement and go to a Notary for signature? Will this stand up in a Court of Law? Will ALL legal issues be covered in your notarized document in the future? Will this cover all your disputes, concerns, issues, legal issues, if Court complications arise? Will this document withstand and hold weight in a Court of Law, if necessary? You are correct to question this process of legal agreements, arrangements and settlements made without legal representation.

However, Mediation is a process that is less expensive than going through a Court Trial, it is usually faster than waiting for a Court’s Judge who will decide all your decisions for you. And neither party, during Mediation, is required to be represented by Counsel but may. All of this can be done without ever having to step into a Courtroom. The time frame for completion of the entire Mediation process to reach your goals will depend on the requirements of the legal issues.

Attorney BJ Fadem has been recognized as an International Mediator by UC Hastings Law School. Mediation can be used for all Family Law legal issues such as Child Custody & Visitation, Child Support, Divorce, Domestic Violence, Legal Separation, Property Division and Spousal Support. Helping bring parties’ disputes to early resolution and move the process as smooth, civil and uncomplicated as possible is the goal.

If your case is a high-conflict matter and/or the opposing party is not willing to settle the matter civilly or politely, Mediation may not be what you are looking for. Our Law Firm will not Mediate if both parties are not willing to submit to the process. Attorney BJ Fadem also cannot legally represent either party during Mediation.

There is a difference between Mediation and Arbitration. Mediation is the process by which parties can settle a legal dispute through a third party [Mediator] and compromise their issues with a fair settlement out of Court. Arbitration is a mini Trial held in an attempt to avoid a Court Trial and conducted by a person or panel of people who are not Judges.

Your issue may be time sensitive, please contact our Law Firm to set-up your Initial Consultation.

Please read the FAQs’ prior to your Initial Consultation.

We file in all California Counties and Cities. In addition, BJ Fadem represents Clients throughout California, the United States and foreign countries with regard to Hague Matters.

CLIENT TESTIMONIALS

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CLIENT TESTIMONIALS

Professional and Skilled. Great Law Office! Mr. BJ Fadem is a knowledgeable and skilled attorney with great experience. Thank you!
Larry

Mr Fadem is extremely knowledgeable of the laws. Felt he was very in tuned to my needs and fought those. Would definitely would use again. HIGHLY RECOMMEND

Sharon

I have worked with Mr. Fadem on many occasions and he is as intelligent, professional, and dedicated as they come. His knowledge of family law is outstanding and I refer him to anyone who needs a specialized and highly skilled family law attorney.

Emily

The reason I return time and time again is knowledgeable employees and the respect I am treated with. I also think that the noncondensending matter in which I was treated was a prime factor.

Claude

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We’re honored to share that FADEM Law has been recognized once again on the 2025 Super Lawyers List!

BJ Fadem has been selected as a Super Lawyer for the 2nd year in a row.

Scott has earned the Rising Star title for the 2nd consecutive year.

Erika Lee is a Rising Star for the 3rd consecutive year.

This recognition reflects our continued commitment to advocacy, inclusivity, and results for families across California.

💙 Thank you to our clients, peers, and community for your trust and support.
We’re here for you, every step of the way.

📲 Need guidance with a family law matter?
Reach out for a confidential consultation at fademlaw.com

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📌 Can You Be Legally Single Before Your Divorce Is Final?
Yes — through what's called a Status Only Judgment.
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If your divorce is dragging on due to complex issues like property division or long-term support, you may be able to bifurcate the case and terminate your marital status early. This means you’re legally single — and can even remarry — while still resolving other divorce matters.
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It’s a powerful option for people ready to move forward with life while staying protected legally.
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💬 Questions about your situation? We’re here to help.
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📞 Book a consultation today.

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At Fadem Law, Erika brings compassion, precision, and deep knowledge to every case — and now she’s nationally recognized for it. The National Academy of Family Law Attorneys is an organization devoted to recognizing the top family law attorneys in the nation.

📍Serving California families with dignity and dedication.

#FamilyLawExcellence #Top10Under40 #NAFLA2024 #FademLaw #CaliforniaFamilyLaw #WomenInLaw #LGBTQFriendlyLawyer #CustodySupport #DivorceHelp #FademFamily #AwardWinningAttorney
Did you know? In California, either parent can request to legally change a child’s last name—but it requires court approval and sometimes both parents’ consent.

This often comes up during adoption, custody disputes, or when a parent wants to establish or reaffirm a deeper bond. The court's focus? Always the best interests of the child—not just what the parents want.

At FADEM, we’ve guided countless families through name changes as part of broader legal transitions like second-parent adoption, custody agreements, or divorce.

Have questions about changing a child’s name or updating legal documents? We’re here to help.

It Just Takes a Call 
fademlaw.com 

#FamilyLawFact #ChildNameChange #CustodySupport #CaliforniaFamilyLaw #FADEMLaw #LegalFacts #ParentingAndLaw #LegalProtection #SanJoseLawyer #LegalAdvice #DivorceSupport #ChildCustody #FamilyMediation #LawyerLife #SanJoseAttorney #FamilyRights #LegalServices #DivorceLaw #DomesticRelations #CustodyBattle #FamilyAdvocate #SanJoseLegal #BuildingFamilies #Adoption #FademLawOffice
We’re honored to share that FADEM Law has been recognized once again on the 2025 Super Lawyers List!

BJ Fadem has been selected as a Super Lawyer for the 2nd year in a row.

Scott has earned the Rising Star title for the 2nd consecutive year.

Erika Lee is a Rising Star for the 3rd consecutive year.

This recognition reflects our continued commitment to advocacy, inclusivity, and results for families across California.

💙 Thank you to our clients, peers, and community for your trust and support.
We’re here for you, every step of the way.

📲 Need guidance with a family law matter?
Reach out for a confidential consultation at fademlaw.com

#SuperLawyers2025 #FademLaw #FamilyLawExperts #CertifiedFamilyLawSpecialist #CaliforniaDivorce #LGBTQFamilyLaw #CustodySupport #RisingStars #LegalAwards #DivorceHelpCA
📌 Can You Be Legally Single Before Your Divorce Is Final?
Yes — through what's called a Status Only Judgment.
⠀
If your divorce is dragging on due to complex issues like property division or long-term support, you may be able to bifurcate the case and terminate your marital status early. This means you’re legally single — and can even remarry — while still resolving other divorce matters.
⠀
It’s a powerful option for people ready to move forward with life while staying protected legally.
⠀
💬 Questions about your situation? We’re here to help.
⠀
📞 Book a consultation today.

#CaliforniaDivorce #FamilyLawExplained #StatusOnlyJudgment #DivorceTips #FademLaw #DivorceInCalifornia #LGBTQFamilyLaw #ComplexDivorce #Bifurcation #MoveOnLegally #CustodyAndSupport #FamilyLawSupport #SanJoseLawyer #DivorceLawyerCalifornia
At Fadem Law, Erika brings compassion, precision, and deep knowledge to every case — and now she’s nationally recognized for it. The National Academy of Family Law Attorneys is an organization devoted to recognizing the top family law attorneys in the nation.

📍Serving California families with dignity and dedication.

#FamilyLawExcellence #Top10Under40 #NAFLA2024 #FademLaw #CaliforniaFamilyLaw #WomenInLaw #LGBTQFriendlyLawyer #CustodySupport #DivorceHelp #FademFamily #AwardWinningAttorney
Did you know? In California, either parent can request to legally change a child’s last name—but it requires court approval and sometimes both parents’ consent.

This often comes up during adoption, custody disputes, or when a parent wants to establish or reaffirm a deeper bond. The court's focus? Always the best interests of the child—not just what the parents want.

At FADEM, we’ve guided countless families through name changes as part of broader legal transitions like second-parent adoption, custody agreements, or divorce.

Have questions about changing a child’s name or updating legal documents? We’re here to help.

It Just Takes a Call 
fademlaw.com 

#FamilyLawFact #ChildNameChange #CustodySupport #CaliforniaFamilyLaw #FADEMLaw #LegalFacts #ParentingAndLaw #LegalProtection #SanJoseLawyer #LegalAdvice #DivorceSupport #ChildCustody #FamilyMediation #LawyerLife #SanJoseAttorney #FamilyRights #LegalServices #DivorceLaw #DomesticRelations #CustodyBattle #FamilyAdvocate #SanJoseLegal #BuildingFamilies #Adoption #FademLawOffice
Today is the International Day of Families — and we’re here to remind you:
Family isn’t defined by blood. It’s defined by love, care, and commitment.

From LGBTQ+ couples to chosen families, guardians, and step-parents — California law has tools to protect your rights, but you have to know how to use them.

Need help understanding your legal options?
📞 Let’s talk about your family’s future.

It Just Takes a Call 
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Family law matters often involve intricate details—financial records, expert testimony, evolving regulations. While many solo attorneys do their best, a collaborative team can offer:

🔹 Diverse Expertise: Specialists in adoption, custody, support, and more all contribute their insights.
🔹 Ongoing Training: Regular in-house workshops keep our team current on California law and best practices.
🔹 Resource Depth: Access to research assistants, investigators, and expert witnesses ensures no stone is left unturned.

At FADEM, our multi-disciplinary approach means your case benefits from the combined strength of seasoned professionals. For complicated family matters, trust the team that has the bandwidth—and the experience—to handle every angle. Let’s explore your options together.

It Just Takes a Call 
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