BJ Fadem & Associates, APC is a Certified Family Law Specialist

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Creating a family is a wonderful experience and commitment. Our Attorneys will do the challenging legal work of the Adoption process for you. We will help you create the legal basis for your family. The Laws and issues regarding Adoption are complicated and ever-changing. Depending on your circumstances and needs, our Attorneys will advise you on how our law firm will handle this process on your behalf.

A new law in California allows the Court to acknowledge that a child may have more than just [2] legal or presumed parents. California will also acknowledge [2] or more parents who are of the same gender. Usually, if the parents are two [2] women, [1] the parent carries the child through a sperm donor. Some even choose to utilize an ovum from their partner. Two [2] male partners usually utilize a ‘surrogate’ to carry the child and choose which parent will donate the sperm. In that case, it is imperative that a ‘Surrogacy Agreement’ be drafted carefully wherein the chosen ‘surrogate’ has no parental rights and ensures that the child is relinquished to the ‘parents’ once the child is born. The best way to accomplish this is to utilize donated ovum – not the ‘surrogates’.

Many couples [whether heterosexual or homosexual] will opt for Adoption when conceiving a child on their own is impossible, improbable, and/or dangerous; or by choice.

Second Parent Adoption is an Adoption when one of the parents is the biological/legal parent of the child[ren] and their spouse/domestic partner chooses to become the legal parent of the child[ren]. This is different from an ‘independent’ Adoption in that the parents are either seeking a child already born that is not biologically or legally the child[ren] of either parent. Second Parent Adoption arises when the biological/legal parent re-marries and wants the new spouse to adopt the child[ren] or same-sex parents want to have a child[ren] together.

Your issue may be time-sensitive, please contact our Law Firm to set up your Initial Consultation.

Please read the FAQs prior to your Initial Consultation.

We file in all California Counties and Cities. In addition, BJ Fadem represents Clients throughout California, the United States, and foreign countries with regard to Hague Matters.

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I have worked with Mr. Fadem on many occasions and he is as intelligent, professional, and dedicated as they come. His knowledge of family law is outstanding and I refer him to anyone who needs a specialized and highly skilled family law attorney.

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Believe it or not, divorce was illegal in South Carolina until 1949 and in Nebraska until 1972! Before then, couples had to prove extreme circumstances, like abandonment or abuse, just to separate.

Today, California is a no-fault divorce state, meaning you don’t need to prove wrongdoing to end a marriage. If you're considering divorce, FADEM Law is here to guide you through the process with care and expertise. 💼

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When navigating child custody, documentation is key. Keeping a parenting journal can help ensure accurate records of your time with your child and any co-parenting challenges.

✅ Track visitation schedules—document pick-ups, drop-offs, and any missed time.
✅ Note important events—record school activities, medical appointments, and daily routines.
✅ Document communication—save texts and emails related to co-parenting.

Having clear, organized records can strengthen your case in custody proceedings. Need guidance? FADEM Law is here to help. 

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Women have played a vital role in shaping the legal system, breaking barriers in courts, legislation, and family law advocacy. This month, we celebrate their contributions and continue fighting for justice and equality.

At FADEM Law, we proudly support and advocate for the rights of women and families every day. 💙

Who is a woman in history that inspires you? Share in the comments!

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Yes! In California, grandparents can petition for custody if it's in the child’s best interest, especially if the parents are unfit or unable to provide proper care. Courts consider:

🔹 The child’s emotional bond with the grandparents
🔹 The stability and safety of the child’s home life
🔹 Parental fitness and ability to provide care

At FADEM Law, we help grandparents navigate the legal process to ensure children are in a safe and loving environment. Contact us today for guidance. 💙

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Believe it or not, divorce was illegal in South Carolina until 1949 and in Nebraska until 1972! Before then, couples had to prove extreme circumstances, like abandonment or abuse, just to separate.

Today, California is a no-fault divorce state, meaning you don’t need to prove wrongdoing to end a marriage. If you're considering divorce, FADEM Law is here to guide you through the process with care and expertise. 💼

It Just Takes a Call 
fademlaw.com 

#FunFact #DivorceLaw #FADEMLaw #LegalHistory #FamilyLaw #KnowYourRights #LegalProtection #SanJoseLawyer #LegalAdvice #DivorceSupport #ChildCustody #FamilyMediation #LawyerLife #SanJoseAttorney #FamilyRights #LegalServices #DivorceLaw #DomesticRelations #CustodyBattle #FamilyAdvocate #SanJoseLegal #BuildingFamilies #Adoption #FademLawOffice
When navigating child custody, documentation is key. Keeping a parenting journal can help ensure accurate records of your time with your child and any co-parenting challenges.

✅ Track visitation schedules—document pick-ups, drop-offs, and any missed time.
✅ Note important events—record school activities, medical appointments, and daily routines.
✅ Document communication—save texts and emails related to co-parenting.

Having clear, organized records can strengthen your case in custody proceedings. Need guidance? FADEM Law is here to help. 

It Just Takes a Call 
fademlaw.com 

#CustodyTip #ParentingJournal #FADEMLaw #FamilyLaw #CoParenting #ChildCustody #LegalGuidance #LegalProtection #SanJoseLawyer #LegalAdvice #DivorceSupport #ChildCustody #FamilyMediation #LawyerLife #SanJoseAttorney #FamilyRights #LegalServices #DivorceLaw #DomesticRelations #CustodyBattle #FamilyAdvocate #SanJoseLegal #BuildingFamilies #Adoption #FademLawOffice
Women have played a vital role in shaping the legal system, breaking barriers in courts, legislation, and family law advocacy. This month, we celebrate their contributions and continue fighting for justice and equality.

At FADEM Law, we proudly support and advocate for the rights of women and families every day. 💙

Who is a woman in history that inspires you? Share in the comments!

It Just Takes a Call 
fademlaw.com 

#WomensHistoryMonth #FamilyLaw #FADEMLaw #WomenInLaw #LegalEquality #LegalGuidance #LegalProtection #SanJoseLawyer #LegalAdvice #DivorceSupport #ChildCustody #FamilyMediation #LawyerLife #SanJoseAttorney #FamilyRights #LegalServices #DivorceLaw #DomesticRelations #CustodyBattle #FamilyAdvocate #SanJoseLegal #BuildingFamilies #Adoption #FademLawOffice
Yes! In California, grandparents can petition for custody if it's in the child’s best interest, especially if the parents are unfit or unable to provide proper care. Courts consider:

🔹 The child’s emotional bond with the grandparents
🔹 The stability and safety of the child’s home life
🔹 Parental fitness and ability to provide care

At FADEM Law, we help grandparents navigate the legal process to ensure children are in a safe and loving environment. Contact us today for guidance. 💙

It Just Takes a Call 
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#GrandparentsRights #ChildCustody #FADEMLaw #FamilyFirst #LegalSupport #LegalGuidance #LegalProtection #SanJoseLawyer #LegalAdvice #DivorceSupport #ChildCustody #FamilyMediation #LawyerLife #SanJoseAttorney #FamilyRights #LegalServices #DivorceLaw #DomesticRelations #CustodyBattle #FamilyAdvocate #SanJoseLegal #BuildingFamilies #Adoption #FademLawOffice
Think annulments are only for short marriages? Not always! In California, an annulment can be granted regardless of how long you’ve been married—but only if certain legal grounds exist, such as:

⚖️ Fraud or misrepresentation (one spouse lied about something significant)
⚖️ Bigamy (one spouse was already married)
⚖️ Incapacity (one spouse was unable to consent to the marriage)

An annulment is different from a divorce because it legally erases the marriage as if it never happened. If you believe your marriage qualifies, Fadem Law can help you navigate the process.

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1 in 3 teens experiences dating abuse, yet many remain silent out of fear or uncertainty. Abuse isn’t just physical—it can also be emotional, digital, or financial. 🚨

Warning Signs Include:
❌ Extreme jealousy or possessiveness
❌ Controlling behavior or isolation from friends/family
❌ Verbal insults, threats, or intimidation
❌ Constant monitoring through texts or social media

If you or someone you know needs help, you are not alone. Fadem Law is here to provide guidance on legal protection, including restraining orders to ensure safety. 💜

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