BJ Fadem & Associates, APC is a Certified Family Law Specialist

Our Law Firm Is Dedicated To Defending Your Rights

Do you feel that your partner emotionally abuses you? Does your partner financially abuse you be controlling or hiding money? Does your partner yell or verbally abuse you to bring you fear and flight? Has your partner ever threatened you in any manner? Do you feel safe at home? If you answer yes to any of these questions you may need assistance from professionals if you are unable to help yourself.

Whether you are filing for Divorce, Legally Separated, ending a relationship, are being harassed by a person, in fear for yourself or family’s safety, or need a Restraining Order, our Attorneys and Staff are your advocates with over 3 decades of experience.

There are [2] types of Restraining Orders: Domestic Violence and Civil Harassment.

Domestic Violence is the physical abuse of a wife, girlfriend, boyfriend, partner, dependent, grandparent, or child. The feelings of dependence, low self-esteem and fear of leaving their partner is a vicious cycle of Domestic Violence. Prosecutors, Law Enforcement and the Courts have many ways to help victims and their families stop this cycle. Our Attorneys can also help you.

Civil Harassment is the act of constant and/or continued unprovoked and annoying actions of someone or a group, including threats and demands; as well as physical or verbal abuse from a third party who is not a spouse, child, parent boyfriend, former boyfriend, girlfriend, or former girlfriend. This may include racial prejudice, threatening phone calls, emails, notes, letters or texts.

If you are going through a Custody & Visitation matter and are, or have been served with a Restraining Order, whether it is criminal or civil, you could lose many of your rights to your family. Restraining Orders can affect your Divorce, Custody/Visitation, Mediation, Domestic Violence, Grandparent Visitation & or Custody, and International Jurisdiction.

Your issue may be time sensitive, please contact our Law Firm to set-up your Initial Consultation.

Please read the FAQs’ prior to your Initial Consultation.

We file in all California Counties and Cities. In addition, BJ Fadem represents Clients throughout California, the United States and foreign countries with regard to Hague Matters.

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Professional and Skilled. Great Law Office! Mr. BJ Fadem is a knowledgeable and skilled attorney with great experience. Thank you!
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Mr Fadem is extremely knowledgeable of the laws. Felt he was very in tuned to my needs and fought those. Would definitely would use again. HIGHLY RECOMMEND

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I have worked with Mr. Fadem on many occasions and he is as intelligent, professional, and dedicated as they come. His knowledge of family law is outstanding and I refer him to anyone who needs a specialized and highly skilled family law attorney.

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The reason I return time and time again is knowledgeable employees and the respect I am treated with. I also think that the noncondensending matter in which I was treated was a prime factor.

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Did you know? In California, either parent can request to legally change a child’s last name—but it requires court approval and sometimes both parents’ consent.

This often comes up during adoption, custody disputes, or when a parent wants to establish or reaffirm a deeper bond. The court's focus? Always the best interests of the child—not just what the parents want.

At FADEM, we’ve guided countless families through name changes as part of broader legal transitions like second-parent adoption, custody agreements, or divorce.

Have questions about changing a child’s name or updating legal documents? We’re here to help.

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Today is the International Day of Families — and we’re here to remind you:
Family isn’t defined by blood. It’s defined by love, care, and commitment.

From LGBTQ+ couples to chosen families, guardians, and step-parents — California law has tools to protect your rights, but you have to know how to use them.

Need help understanding your legal options?
📞 Let’s talk about your family’s future.

It Just Takes a Call 
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Family law matters often involve intricate details—financial records, expert testimony, evolving regulations. While many solo attorneys do their best, a collaborative team can offer:

🔹 Diverse Expertise: Specialists in adoption, custody, support, and more all contribute their insights.
🔹 Ongoing Training: Regular in-house workshops keep our team current on California law and best practices.
🔹 Resource Depth: Access to research assistants, investigators, and expert witnesses ensures no stone is left unturned.

At FADEM, our multi-disciplinary approach means your case benefits from the combined strength of seasoned professionals. For complicated family matters, trust the team that has the bandwidth—and the experience—to handle every angle. Let’s explore your options together.

It Just Takes a Call 
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#FADEMLaw #TeamApproach #FamilyLawExperts #CollaborativeLaw #LegalExcellence #LegalHelpCA #LegalProtection #SanJoseLawyer #LegalAdvice #DivorceSupport #ChildCustody #FamilyMediation #LawyerLife #SanJoseAttorney #FamilyRights #LegalServices #DivorceLaw #DomesticRelations #CustodyBattle #FamilyAdvocate #SanJoseLegal #BuildingFamilies #Adoption #FademLawOffice
While temporary support can follow local guideline calculators, permanent or long-term spousal support is where things get nuanced — judges consider over a dozen factors like the length of the marriage, each party’s earning capacity, and even the standard of living during the relationship.

⚖️ What’s more? Judges have broad discretion. That’s why skilled legal guidance matters.

At BJ Fadem & Associates, we help you understand your rights, and protect your future.

Thinking about separation or divorce? Let’s talk.

It Just Takes a Call 
fademlaw.com 

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Did you know? In California, either parent can request to legally change a child’s last name—but it requires court approval and sometimes both parents’ consent.

This often comes up during adoption, custody disputes, or when a parent wants to establish or reaffirm a deeper bond. The court's focus? Always the best interests of the child—not just what the parents want.

At FADEM, we’ve guided countless families through name changes as part of broader legal transitions like second-parent adoption, custody agreements, or divorce.

Have questions about changing a child’s name or updating legal documents? We’re here to help.

It Just Takes a Call 
fademlaw.com 

#FamilyLawFact #ChildNameChange #CustodySupport #CaliforniaFamilyLaw #FADEMLaw #LegalFacts #ParentingAndLaw #LegalProtection #SanJoseLawyer #LegalAdvice #DivorceSupport #ChildCustody #FamilyMediation #LawyerLife #SanJoseAttorney #FamilyRights #LegalServices #DivorceLaw #DomesticRelations #CustodyBattle #FamilyAdvocate #SanJoseLegal #BuildingFamilies #Adoption #FademLawOffice
Today is the International Day of Families — and we’re here to remind you:
Family isn’t defined by blood. It’s defined by love, care, and commitment.

From LGBTQ+ couples to chosen families, guardians, and step-parents — California law has tools to protect your rights, but you have to know how to use them.

Need help understanding your legal options?
📞 Let’s talk about your family’s future.

It Just Takes a Call 
fademlaw.com 

#YouDeserveSupport #ChosenFamilyIsFamily #FamilyLawMatters #FademLaw #LegalHelpCA #LegalProtection #SanJoseLawyer #LegalAdvice #DivorceSupport #ChildCustody #FamilyMediation #LawyerLife #SanJoseAttorney #FamilyRights #LegalServices #DivorceLaw #DomesticRelations #CustodyBattle #FamilyAdvocate #SanJoseLegal #BuildingFamilies #Adoption #FademLawOffice
Family law matters often involve intricate details—financial records, expert testimony, evolving regulations. While many solo attorneys do their best, a collaborative team can offer:

🔹 Diverse Expertise: Specialists in adoption, custody, support, and more all contribute their insights.
🔹 Ongoing Training: Regular in-house workshops keep our team current on California law and best practices.
🔹 Resource Depth: Access to research assistants, investigators, and expert witnesses ensures no stone is left unturned.

At FADEM, our multi-disciplinary approach means your case benefits from the combined strength of seasoned professionals. For complicated family matters, trust the team that has the bandwidth—and the experience—to handle every angle. Let’s explore your options together.

It Just Takes a Call 
fademlaw.com 

#FADEMLaw #TeamApproach #FamilyLawExperts #CollaborativeLaw #LegalExcellence #LegalHelpCA #LegalProtection #SanJoseLawyer #LegalAdvice #DivorceSupport #ChildCustody #FamilyMediation #LawyerLife #SanJoseAttorney #FamilyRights #LegalServices #DivorceLaw #DomesticRelations #CustodyBattle #FamilyAdvocate #SanJoseLegal #BuildingFamilies #Adoption #FademLawOffice
While temporary support can follow local guideline calculators, permanent or long-term spousal support is where things get nuanced — judges consider over a dozen factors like the length of the marriage, each party’s earning capacity, and even the standard of living during the relationship.

⚖️ What’s more? Judges have broad discretion. That’s why skilled legal guidance matters.

At BJ Fadem & Associates, we help you understand your rights, and protect your future.

Thinking about separation or divorce? Let’s talk.

It Just Takes a Call 
fademlaw.com 

#SpousalSupport #CaliforniaFamilyLaw #DivorceSupport #FamilyLawSpecialist #KnowYourRights #AlimonyFacts #BJFADEMlaw #LegalHelpCA #LegalProtection #SanJoseLawyer #LegalAdvice #DivorceSupport #ChildCustody #FamilyMediation #LawyerLife #SanJoseAttorney #FamilyRights #LegalServices #DivorceLaw #DomesticRelations #CustodyBattle #FamilyAdvocate #SanJoseLegal #BuildingFamilies #Adoption #FademLawOffice
A child custody evaluation can seem daunting, but being well-prepared can make all the difference. Here are some tips to help you confidently navigate the process:

🔹 Document Daily Routines: Keep detailed records of your involvement in your child's life—school, activities, and healthcare.
🔹 Keep Communication Records: Save emails, texts, and logs that show your dedication to co-parenting.
🔹 Be Honest and Calm: Approach evaluations with transparency and composure; your authenticity is key.
🔹 Prioritize Your Child’s Best Interests: Always align your actions and statements with your child's well-being.

Fadem Law is here to guide you through every step of the custody process, ensuring your rights and your child's best interests are protected. Let us help you prepare for a successful custody evaluation.

It Just Takes a Call 
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That’s right! Under California law, children 14 years or older can express their custody preferences—and the court must consider them if it's in the child’s best interest.

Their voice matters, but it’s just one part of the bigger picture. At Fadem Law, we make sure every custody case puts the child’s well-being first. 💙

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