Senior Attorney & President of Law Offices BJ Fadem & Associates, APC.

Meet Your Attorney

B J Fadem Attorney at Law, started practicing Law in 1985 and became Certified as a Specialist in Family Law by the State Bar of California in 2000. He is also a Certified Specialist as an International Mediator by UC Hastings Law School. And an Adjunct Professor at Santa Clara Law School teaching Wills & Trust as well as Family Law.

The Law Offices of B J Fadem & Associates was founded in 1991. However, this career followed his previous incarnations with the San Jose Police Department, an Insurance Investigator, a liability supervisor for Transamerica Insurance, a Pre-Trial Release Specialist, and a musician.

B J Fadem is one of very few Attorneys in California that specializes in Palimony, International and Interstate domestic cases, including Hague Child Abduction, International Jurisdiction and matters of Uniformed Child Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act Matters.

B J Fadem is dedicated and committed to not only the practice of Law but the applications of the Law in representing the legal rights and protections of all citizens. In 2017, while a member of the Family Law Executive Committee for the State Bar of California, B J Fadem Co-Authored and was instrumental in implementing new legislation that established emergency jurisdiction over custody and property matters pending a transfer of case due to a change of venue.

He has written several articles for the California State Bar Family Law Section publication; as well as being a contributing author for several publications.

EDUCATION

San Jose State University
B.S. Microbiology Graduated 1980
B.S. Administration of Justice

U.C. Davis – School of Medicine  1980 – 1981

J.D. Golden Gate University – School of Law  Graduated 1984

FORMER VOLUNTEER & PROFESSIONAL POSITIONS:

• Former San Jose Police Officer
• FLEXCOM 2014-2017
• Former Chair of the Santa Clara County Bar Association Family Law Section
• Former member of the Board of Legal Specialization of the State Bar of California
• Former member of the Family Law Executive Committee of the State Bar of California
• Former member of the Judiciary Committee for Santa Clara County Bar Association

AWARDS

• The Henry Collada Award 2014 & 2021 – Santa Clara County
• Top Trial Attorney
• American Society of International Law
• Santa Clara County Pro Bono Project
• Santa Clara County Award of Appreciation
• Vanguard Award 2018
• Unsung Hero Award – Santa Clara County -2021
• National Advocate’s Top 30 Matrimonial and Family Law Attorneys – 2021
• Best Lawyers in America – 2023 & 2024
•Santa Clara County Professional Lawyer of the Year – 2023

NBI [NATIONAL BUSINESS INSTITUTE] AS CONTRIBUTING AUTHOR

  • Combatting Systemic Bias – 2022
  • The Paralegal’s Guide to Bias, Diversity and Inclusion – 2022
  • Blended Family Legal Issues: Support, Custody & More – 2022
  • Discovery – 2021
  • Paralegal’s Guide to Discovery in Divorce Cases – 2021
  • Complex Custody & Support – 2021
  • Discovery and Records Investigation in Divorce: A Paralegals’ Guide – 2021
  • Confronting Bias with Cultural Competence – 2020
  • Advanced Family Law – 2020
  • Divorce Motion & Trial Practice – 2020
  • Attorney Ethics: A Practical Guide – 2019
  • Combatting Systemic Bias – 2019
  • Discovery and the Paralegal’s Role in Divorce Trials – 2019
  • Qualified Domestic Relations Orders [QDRO’s] – 2018
  • Divorce Case from Start to Finish – 2017
  • Divorce for Same-Sex Couples: Dividing Assets, Custody Complications and More – 2016
  • Tax Issues and Divorce – 2015
  • Divorce Law Guide From A to Z 2015
  • Divorce Case From Start to Finish for Paralegals 2014
  • Divorce Litigation from Start to Finish 2013
  • Family Law From A to Z 2012

VOLUNTEER & PROFESSIONAL POSITIONS

  • Member of the San Jose Independent Police Auditor Advisory Commission-Appointed by Retired Judge LaDoris Cordel
  • President of the Santa Clara County Family Law Attorney Emeritus Committee

  • Coordinator of the Santa Clara County Teen Orientation Team

  • Member of the Santa Clara County Bar Association Family Law Section Strategic  Planning Committee

  • Delegate of the Santa Clara County Conference of Delegates

  • Co-Chair of the Santa Clara County Family Law Section Legislation Committee

  • Member of the Santa Clara County Bar Family Law Executive Board

  • Chair of the Santa Clara County Bar Association Family Law Section Education  Committee

  • Member of the Santa Clara County Minors Counsel Committee

  • Member of the Association of Certified Family Law Specialists

  • United States Hague Attorney Network

  • BAYMEC-Board Member and Co-Chair of the Policy Committee

  • Chair-Santa Clara County Bar Association Family Law Section LGBTQI+ Committee
  • Chair-Diversity Committee for the Santa Clara County Bar Association

  • Former Santa Clara County Bar Association Board of Trustee

  • Frequent Guest of “Your Legal Rights”, on KALW 91.5 NPR for the Bay Area,  California

  • Member of the Family Law Executive Committee of California Lawyers’ Association

  • Adjunct Professor at Santa Clara Law School, California [Wills & Trust and Family Law]

  • Member of Inns of Court

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This Labor Day, let’s celebrate the hard work and dedication of families. Remember to take time to rest 😴, recharge 🔋,and enjoy the company of loved ones ❤️. Happy Labor Day from the BJ Fadem Family Law team!
At Bj Fadem Family Law, we recognize the importance of individual rights within families. This Individual Rights Day, we stand with all family members to acknowledge and protect their unique needs.

Our experienced team understands that family law is about more than just legalities. It's about protecting the rights of every individual involved. We specialize in:

Child custody and support
Divorce
Domestic violence
Paternity
And more

We believe that every family member deserves to be heard and respected. On Individual Rights Day, let's commit to building stronger families by protecting the rights of each individual.

Contact Bj Fadem Family Law today to schedule a consultation and learn how we can help your family.

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Back to school can be a challenging time for co-parenting. Here are some tips to help navigate custody agreements smoothly during the school year.

Here’s a quick guide to help you manage custody agreements smoothly:

1️⃣ Review Your Plan: Ensure both parents understand the current agreement.

2️⃣ Communicate Clearly: Discuss school schedules and pick-up/drop-off arrangements.

3️⃣ Be Flexible: Accommodate necessary changes to support your child’s needs.

4️⃣ Keep Records: Document any adjustments or agreements made.

5️⃣ Plan for Events: Coordinate school activities and events.
Let us support you through this back-to-school season! 📚✏️

Contact us today for personalized legal assistance.

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Are you and your partner considering second parent adoption to solidify your family unit? This heartwarming decision can provide incredible benefits for your child and your family as a whole.

What is Second Parent Adoption?

Second parent adoption is a legal process that allows a non-biological parent to formally adopt a child whose other parent is already legally recognized. It's a way to create a legally binding parent-child relationship, granting both parents equal rights and responsibilities.

Why Choose Second Parent Adoption?

🔒 Legal Protection: Ensures both parents have equal rights when making important decisions about your child’s healthcare, education, and well-being. This provides crucial legal protections in case of unforeseen circumstances.

🏡 Inheritance Rights: Guarantees that your child will inherit from both parents, just like any other biological family.

🌟 Family Unity: Creates a stronger sense of belonging and security for your child, reinforcing the message that they are loved and cherished by both parents.

⚖️ Equality: Recognizes the vital role both parents play in your child's life, fostering a sense of fairness and balance within the family.

At BJ Fadem Family Law, we understand the significance of this decision and are committed to guiding you through the legal process with care and expertise. Our experienced attorneys will work closely with you to ensure a smooth and successful adoption.

Ready to take the next step? Contact us today for a consultation.

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Family isn't always just blood. Strong friendships can be a pillar of support during challenging times, especially during a divorce or custody case. But what happens when those friendships get strained by family law issues?

At Fadem Law, we understand. ⚖️ That's why we work tirelessly to find solutions that minimize conflict and prioritize the well-being of both your family and your cherished friendships.

Schedule a consultation today and let's navigate these challenges together!

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August is Child Support Awareness Month! This month, Fadem Law is here to bust some common myths and shed light on the truths of child support.

Myth: Child support is only for single mothers.

Truth: Child support is the financial responsibility of both parents, regardless of marital status or custody arrangements. It helps ensure a child's basic needs are met, including food, clothing, shelter, healthcare, and education.

Myth: Child support payments go directly to the receiving parent.

Truth: Child support is meant to benefit the child. In most cases, it's paid through a court-ordered system that ensures funds are used for the child's well-being.

Myth: If I don't see my child, I don't have to pay child support.

Truth: Your financial obligation to your child remains even if there's no visitation. Child support is about providing for your child's needs, not a payment for access.

Need help to understand your rights and responsibilities regarding child support? Fadem Law is here for you. Contact us today for a consultation!

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