Principal Attorney and Founder of Law Offices BJ Fadem & Associates, APC.

Meet Your Attorney

B J Fadem started practicing Law in 1985 and became certified as a Specialist in Family Law by the State Bar of California in 2000. He is also a Certified Specialist as an International Mediator by UC Hastings Law School and one of only two certified international mediators in the State of California. In 2018, B J became an Adjunct Professor at Santa Clara University School of Law, where he teaches Wills & Trusts and Family Law.

B J founded the Law Offices of Fadem & Associates in 1990. This career followed his previous lives as a Police Officer with the San Jose Police Department, an Insurance Investigator, a liability supervisor for Transamerica Insurance, a Pre-Trial Release Specialist, and a musician.

B J Fadem is one of the very few Attorneys in California who specializes in Palimony, International and Interstate jurisdictional cases, including International Child & Abduction under the Hague Convention and matters under the Uniformed Child Custody Jurisdiction and Enforcement Act (UCCJEA), as well as Inter-State Child Abduction. Through his leadership and expertise, B J has taught our attorneys to adeptly handle these cases and frequently serves as an expert in these fields of law, as well as having taught other attorneys and judges throughout the country this specialized area of the law.

As a Certified Family Law Specialist, B J specializes in all aspects of Family Law. He is also passionate about mediation, including international mediation, private judging, and Family Law Appeals. B J also handles probate matters; whether it is an intestate matter (i.e., an individual has died without a will or trust), a will, or a holographic (handwritten) will.
B J Fadem is not only dedicated and committed to the practice of Law, but also to the applications of the Law in representing the legal rights and protections of all citizens at the legislative level. In 2017, while a member of the Family Law Executive Committee for the State Bar of California, B J Fadem Co-Authored and was instrumental in implementing new legislation that established emergency jurisdiction over custody and property matters pending a transfer of case due to a change of venue.

B J’s experience and expertise resulted in recognition by Best Lawyers in America for Family Law and Family Law Mediation since 2021 and as a Northern California Super Lawyer since 2023. The Law Firm has also been recognized by Best Lawyers in Best Law Firms for Family Law and Family Law Mediation since 2021.

B J continues to give back to the legal community and share his knowledge and experience, not only with his team but with the community at large. B J has written several articles for the California State Bar Family Law Section publication, as well as being a contributing author for several publications. In his role as the Chair of the Education Committee of the Santa Clara County Bar Association Family Law Section, B J is committed to providing education and resources to family law attorneys in our community.

EDUCATION

San Jose State University
B.S. Microbiology Graduated 1980
B.S. Administration of Justice

U.C. Davis – School of Medicine  1980 – 1981

J.D. Golden Gate University – School of Law  Graduated 1984

PAST PROFESSIONAL ROLES

Former San Jose Police Officer
FLEXCOM 2014-2017
Former Chair of the Santa Clara County Bar Association Family Law Section
Former member of the Board of Legal Specialization of the State Bar of California
Former member of the Family Law Executive Committee of the State Bar of California

AWARDS

Best Lawyers in America (Family Law and Family Law Mediation) – 2021 – 2025
Northern California Super Lawyers 2024 – 2026
The Henry Collada Award 2014 & 2021 – Santa Clara County
Top Trial Attorney
American Society of International Law
Santa Clara County Pro Bono Project
Santa Clara County Award of Appreciation
Vanguard Award 2018
Unsung Hero Award – Santa Clara County – 2021
National Advocate’s Top 30 Matrimonial and Family Law Attorneys – 2021
• Santa Clara County Professional Lawyer of the Year – 2023

NBI [NATIONAL BUSINESS INSTITUTE] AS CONTRIBUTING AUTHOR

NBI [NATIONAL BUSINESS INSTITUTE] AS CONTRIBUTING AUTHOR

  • Combatting Systemic Bias – 2022
  • The Paralegal’s Guide to Bias, Diversity and Inclusion – 2022
  • Blended Family Legal Issues: Support, Custody & More – 2022
  • Discovery – 2021
  • Paralegal’s Guide to Discovery in Divorce Cases – 2021
  • Complex Custody & Support – 2021
  • Discovery and Records Investigation in Divorce: A Paralegals’ Guide – 2021
  • Confronting Bias with Cultural Competence – 2020
  • Advanced Family Law – 2020
  • Divorce Motion & Trial Practice – 2020
  • Attorney Ethics: A Practical Guide – 2019
  • Combatting Systemic Bias – 2019
  • Discovery and the Paralegal’s Role in Divorce Trials – 2019
  • Qualified Domestic Relations Orders [QDRO’s] – 2018
  • Divorce Case from Start to Finish – 2017
  • Divorce for Same-Sex Couples: Dividing Assets, Custody Complications and More – 2016
  • Tax Issues and Divorce – 2015
  • Divorce Law Guide From A to Z 2015
  • Divorce Case From Start to Finish for Paralegals 2014
  • Divorce Litigation from Start to Finish 2013
  • Family Law From A to Z 2012

VOLUNTEER & PROFESSIONAL POSITIONS

  • Chair of the Santa Clara County Bar Association Family Law Section LGBTQI+ Committee
  • Co-Chair of the Equality Committee for the Santa Clara County Bar Association
  • Co-Chair of the Santa Clara County Family Law Section Legislation Committee
  • BAYMEC Board Member and Treasurer
  • Chair of the Santa Clara County Bar Association Family Law Section Education Committee
  • Board Member for the Santa Clara County Bar Association Board of Trustees
  • Member of the Judiciary Committee for Santa Clara County Bar Association
  • Member of the San Jose Independent Police Auditor Advisory Commission-Appointed by Retired Judge LaDoris Cordel
  • President of the Santa Clara County Family Law Attorney Emeritus Committee
  • Coordinator of the Santa Clara County Teen Orientation Team
  • Member of the Santa Clara County Bar Association Family Law Section Strategic Planning Committee
  • Delegate of the Santa Clara County Conference of Delegates
  • Member of the Santa Clara County Minors Counsel Committee

  • Member of the Association of Certified Family Law Specialists
  • United States Hague Attorney Network Member
  • Member of the Family Law Executive Committee of California Lawyers’ Association
  • Adjunct Professor at Santa Clara Law School, California [Wills & Trust and Family Law]
  • Member of the Ingram Inns of Court
  • Frequent Guest of “Your Legal Rights”, on KALW 91.5 NPR for the Bay Area, California