BJ Fadem & Associates, APC is a Certified Family Law Specialist

Our Law Firm Is Dedicated To Defending Your Rights

You may never have thought that all those Valentines’ Cards, special love notes, emails, texts, and birthday cards would either be useful or haunt you. Who would think that not getting married would become such a nightmare? Not getting married is now the norm in this modern world. Having a partner, girlfriend, boyfriend, or who you called your partner in life, now has become an issue in a Court Law! Did you just pack up your belongings and attempt to just start over? Did you ask they/her/him to just move out? Then, all of a sudden, you are faced with the legal action of Palimony and you are shocked, dismayed, shattered, and in total disbelief! Your whole world is now turned upside down! How can this be possible when you did not marry your partner?

Cohabitating without marriage is very common in our contemporary age. However, the ending of this relationship and a person’s legal rights to Child Custody & Visitation, Child Support, and Property rights, among others, are not commonly known.

The first Palimony case was Marvin vs Marvin whereas: Michelle Triola spent several years living with actor Lee Marvin. After their breakup, she legally adopted the surname “Marvin” despite never having been married to him and claimed he had promised to support her for the rest of her life. In the end, the California Supreme Court ruled that Michelle Triola had not proven the existence of a contract between herself and Lee Marvin that gave her an interest in his property. Thus, the common law rule applied to the situation without alteration, and she took away from the relationship and the household what she brought to it.

The Court went on to explain that while the state abolished Common Law Marriage in 1896, California Law, however, does, in fact, recognize non-martial relationship contracts or agreements between people. These contracts may be express or implied, oral or written, but they must be provable in any case. Eventually, the California Court of Appeal ruled that since Michelle Triola and Lee Marvin never had such a contract, she was not entitled to any money.
In addition, even though you may not be married; or you may not be on the “deed” to real property, there may be a ‘community’ interest in real property if, in fact, it can be proven that there was an ‘agreement’ or ‘promise’ that the home was both of yours.

The Courts decide matters of Palimony case by case and time is of the essence.

Your issue may be time sensitive, please contact our Law Firm to set-up your Initial Consultation.

Please read the FAQs’ prior to your Initial Consultation.

We file in all California Counties and Cities. In addition, BJ Fadem represents Clients throughout California, the United States and foreign countries with regard to Hague Matters.

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Professional and Skilled. Great Law Office! Mr. BJ Fadem is a knowledgeable and skilled attorney with great experience. Thank you!
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Mr Fadem is extremely knowledgeable of the laws. Felt he was very in tuned to my needs and fought those. Would definitely would use again. HIGHLY RECOMMEND

Sharon

I have worked with Mr. Fadem on many occasions and he is as intelligent, professional, and dedicated as they come. His knowledge of family law is outstanding and I refer him to anyone who needs a specialized and highly skilled family law attorney.

Emily

The reason I return time and time again is knowledgeable employees and the respect I am treated with. I also think that the noncondensending matter in which I was treated was a prime factor.

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In honor of National Women’s History Month, we’re celebrating the incredible women who are making a difference in the legal field. At Fadem Law, we’re proud to have strong, dedicated women leading the way—like Erika, whose passion for family law helps families navigate life’s toughest challenges.

With her commitment to justice and compassionate approach, Erika advocates for families in need, ensuring their voices are heard and their rights protected. She is a true asset to our team and every client she serves.

Join us in celebrating Erika and all the amazing women shaping the future of law! ⚖️

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Single parents juggle so much—providing for their children, managing daily responsibilities, and navigating complex legal challenges. Yet, the legal system is not always designed with their realities in mind. At Fadem Law, we advocate for fair custody arrangements, accessible child support enforcement, and legal protections that empower single parents to create stable, loving homes.

Too often, single parents face unnecessary legal battles just to secure what their children deserve. Family law should work for families, not against them. That’s why we fight to ensure single parents have the legal support they need to protect their children’s well-being.

If you or someone you know is struggling with custody, child support, or co-parenting challenges, you are not alone. We’re here to help.

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When it comes to family law, experience matters. FADEM isn’t just a law firm—it’s a trusted institution with 35+ years of proven success in California and internationally.

Why does this matter to you? Unlike solo attorneys who may lack courtroom experience or a full support team, FADEM provides:

🔹 A highly skilled legal team collaborating on your case.
🔹 Deep knowledge of California family law & international cases.
🔹 A long-standing reputation with courts, clients, and the legal community.

Choosing a firm with a legacy of excellence means choosing confidence, credibility, and results. Ready for expert guidance? Let’s talk. 

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Believe it or not, divorce was illegal in South Carolina until 1949 and in Nebraska until 1972! Before then, couples had to prove extreme circumstances, like abandonment or abuse, just to separate.

Today, California is a no-fault divorce state, meaning you don’t need to prove wrongdoing to end a marriage. If you're considering divorce, FADEM Law is here to guide you through the process with care and expertise. 💼

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In honor of National Women’s History Month, we’re celebrating the incredible women who are making a difference in the legal field. At Fadem Law, we’re proud to have strong, dedicated women leading the way—like Erika, whose passion for family law helps families navigate life’s toughest challenges.

With her commitment to justice and compassionate approach, Erika advocates for families in need, ensuring their voices are heard and their rights protected. She is a true asset to our team and every client she serves.

Join us in celebrating Erika and all the amazing women shaping the future of law! ⚖️

It Just Takes a Call 
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#WomensHistoryMonth #WomenInLaw #FamilyLaw #FademLaw #KnowYourRights #LegalProtection #SanJoseLawyer #LegalAdvice #DivorceSupport #ChildCustody #FamilyMediation #LawyerLife #SanJoseAttorney #FamilyRights #LegalServices #DivorceLaw #DomesticRelations #CustodyBattle #SanJoseLegal #BuildingFamilies #Adoption #FademLawOffice
Single parents juggle so much—providing for their children, managing daily responsibilities, and navigating complex legal challenges. Yet, the legal system is not always designed with their realities in mind. At Fadem Law, we advocate for fair custody arrangements, accessible child support enforcement, and legal protections that empower single parents to create stable, loving homes.

Too often, single parents face unnecessary legal battles just to secure what their children deserve. Family law should work for families, not against them. That’s why we fight to ensure single parents have the legal support they need to protect their children’s well-being.

If you or someone you know is struggling with custody, child support, or co-parenting challenges, you are not alone. We’re here to help.

It Just Takes a Call 
fademlaw.com 

#NationalSingleParentDay #AdvocacyMatters #FamilyLaw #ChildSupport #CustodyRights #FademLaw #KnowYourRights #LegalProtection #SanJoseLawyer #LegalAdvice #DivorceSupport #ChildCustody #FamilyMediation #LawyerLife #SanJoseAttorney #FamilyRights #LegalServices #DivorceLaw #DomesticRelations #CustodyBattle #SanJoseLegal #BuildingFamilies #Adoption #FademLawOffice
When it comes to family law, experience matters. FADEM isn’t just a law firm—it’s a trusted institution with 35+ years of proven success in California and internationally.

Why does this matter to you? Unlike solo attorneys who may lack courtroom experience or a full support team, FADEM provides:

🔹 A highly skilled legal team collaborating on your case.
🔹 Deep knowledge of California family law & international cases.
🔹 A long-standing reputation with courts, clients, and the legal community.

Choosing a firm with a legacy of excellence means choosing confidence, credibility, and results. Ready for expert guidance? Let’s talk. 

It Just Takes a Call 
fademlaw.com 

#FADEMLaw #TrustedSince1987 #FamilyLawExperts #ExperiencedAttorneys #LegalExcellence #KnowYourRights #LegalProtection #SanJoseLawyer #LegalAdvice #DivorceSupport #ChildCustody #FamilyMediation #LawyerLife #SanJoseAttorney #FamilyRights #LegalServices #DivorceLaw #DomesticRelations #CustodyBattle #SanJoseLegal #BuildingFamilies #Adoption #FademLawOffice
Believe it or not, divorce was illegal in South Carolina until 1949 and in Nebraska until 1972! Before then, couples had to prove extreme circumstances, like abandonment or abuse, just to separate.

Today, California is a no-fault divorce state, meaning you don’t need to prove wrongdoing to end a marriage. If you're considering divorce, FADEM Law is here to guide you through the process with care and expertise. 💼

It Just Takes a Call 
fademlaw.com 

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When navigating child custody, documentation is key. Keeping a parenting journal can help ensure accurate records of your time with your child and any co-parenting challenges.

✅ Track visitation schedules—document pick-ups, drop-offs, and any missed time.
✅ Note important events—record school activities, medical appointments, and daily routines.
✅ Document communication—save texts and emails related to co-parenting.

Having clear, organized records can strengthen your case in custody proceedings. Need guidance? FADEM Law is here to help. 

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Women have played a vital role in shaping the legal system, breaking barriers in courts, legislation, and family law advocacy. This month, we celebrate their contributions and continue fighting for justice and equality.

At FADEM Law, we proudly support and advocate for the rights of women and families every day. 💙

Who is a woman in history that inspires you? Share in the comments!

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