BJ Fadem & Associates, APC is a Certified Family Law Specialist

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You and the other part[ies’] in your legal issue are eager to settle your matter and are agreeable. However, you need a Mediator to settle and to assist all parties involved all your legal issues in your matter. Where do you turn to? Do you draw up your own agreement and go to a Notary for signature? Will this stand up in a Court of Law? Will ALL legal issues be covered in your notarized document in the future? Will this cover all your disputes, concerns, issues, legal issues, if Court complications arise? Will this document withstand and hold weight in a Court of Law, if necessary? You are correct to question this process of legal agreements, arrangements and settlements made without legal representation.

However, Mediation is a process that is less expensive than going through a Court Trial, it is usually faster than waiting for a Court’s Judge who will decide all your decisions for you. And neither party, during Mediation, is required to be represented by Counsel but may. All of this can be done without ever having to step into a Courtroom. The time frame for completion of the entire Mediation process to reach your goals will depend on the requirements of the legal issues.

Attorney BJ Fadem has been recognized as an International Mediator by UC Hastings Law School. Mediation can be used for all Family Law legal issues such as Child Custody & Visitation, Child Support, Divorce, Domestic Violence, Legal Separation, Property Division and Spousal Support. Helping bring parties’ disputes to early resolution and move the process as smooth, civil and uncomplicated as possible is the goal.

If your case is a high-conflict matter and/or the opposing party is not willing to settle the matter civilly or politely, Mediation may not be what you are looking for. Our Law Firm will not Mediate if both parties are not willing to submit to the process. Attorney BJ Fadem also cannot legally represent either party during Mediation.

There is a difference between Mediation and Arbitration. Mediation is the process by which parties can settle a legal dispute through a third party [Mediator] and compromise their issues with a fair settlement out of Court. Arbitration is a mini Trial held in an attempt to avoid a Court Trial and conducted by a person or panel of people who are not Judges.

Your issue may be time sensitive, please contact our Law Firm to set-up your Initial Consultation.

Please read the FAQs’ prior to your Initial Consultation.

We file in all California Counties and Cities. In addition, BJ Fadem represents Clients throughout California, the United States and foreign countries with regard to Hague Matters.

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Professional and Skilled. Great Law Office! Mr. BJ Fadem is a knowledgeable and skilled attorney with great experience. Thank you!
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Mr Fadem is extremely knowledgeable of the laws. Felt he was very in tuned to my needs and fought those. Would definitely would use again. HIGHLY RECOMMEND

Sharon

I have worked with Mr. Fadem on many occasions and he is as intelligent, professional, and dedicated as they come. His knowledge of family law is outstanding and I refer him to anyone who needs a specialized and highly skilled family law attorney.

Emily

The reason I return time and time again is knowledgeable employees and the respect I am treated with. I also think that the noncondensending matter in which I was treated was a prime factor.

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Navigating a custody battle can be emotionally draining. Here are 8 essential tips to help you stay strong and make informed decisions:

1️⃣Prioritize Your Child's Best Interests: Always keep your child's well-being at the forefront of your decisions.
2️⃣Document Everything: Maintain a detailed record of your child's routine, milestones, and any issues with the other parent.
3️⃣Seek Legal Counsel: Consult with an experienced family law attorney to understand your rights and options.
4️⃣Be Organized: Keep all relevant documents, such as medical records, school reports, and financial records, in a safe place.
5️⃣Stay Calm and Composed: Avoid emotional outbursts during interactions with the other parent or in court.
6️⃣Build a Support System: Lean on friends, family, and support groups to help you cope with stress.
7️⃣Be Patient: The legal process can be lengthy. Stay focused on your goals and trust the process.
8️⃣Protect Your Mental Health: Prioritize self-care, seek therapy, and practice stress-relief techniques.

At BJ Fadem Family Law, we’re here to help moms through every step of the custody process, ensuring your voice is heard and your child’s best interests are prioritized. Reach out to us for expert support. 💙

It Just Takes a Call
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In some states, you could accidentally find yourself married without a formal ceremony! 💍 Known as "common law marriage," this legal concept recognizes relationships as marital even without a license or official ceremony.

But don't worry, California doesn't recognize common law marriage. So, you can enjoy your relationship without the added legal complications.

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🔹 Law with a Balanced Approach 🔹

At BJ Fadem & Associates, we bring a steady, thoughtful approach to each case, guided by decades of experience. Like a seasoned officer responding to a call, we assess every angle before deciding the best way forward. While we’re fully prepared to take your case to trial if necessary, our priority is to explore solutions that keep you in control and minimize stress and costs.

Meet the team with a legacy of dedication, commitment, and over 30 years of service. ⚖️

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This Veterans Day, we thank veterans and their families for their sacrifices. At BJ Fadem & Associates, APC, we’re here to support military families with family law needs, offering guidance that respects their unique challenges. 

We’re proud to stand with those who’ve served.	

It Just Takes a Call
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Navigating a custody battle can be emotionally draining. Here are 8 essential tips to help you stay strong and make informed decisions:

1️⃣Prioritize Your Child's Best Interests: Always keep your child's well-being at the forefront of your decisions.
2️⃣Document Everything: Maintain a detailed record of your child's routine, milestones, and any issues with the other parent.
3️⃣Seek Legal Counsel: Consult with an experienced family law attorney to understand your rights and options.
4️⃣Be Organized: Keep all relevant documents, such as medical records, school reports, and financial records, in a safe place.
5️⃣Stay Calm and Composed: Avoid emotional outbursts during interactions with the other parent or in court.
6️⃣Build a Support System: Lean on friends, family, and support groups to help you cope with stress.
7️⃣Be Patient: The legal process can be lengthy. Stay focused on your goals and trust the process.
8️⃣Protect Your Mental Health: Prioritize self-care, seek therapy, and practice stress-relief techniques.

At BJ Fadem Family Law, we’re here to help moms through every step of the custody process, ensuring your voice is heard and your child’s best interests are prioritized. Reach out to us for expert support. 💙

It Just Takes a Call
fademlaw.com

#CustodyBattleTips #MothersRights #ChildCustody #LegalSupport #FamilyFirst #FamilyLaw #SanJoseLawyer #LegalAdvice #DivorceSupport #ChildCustody #FamilyMediation #LawyerLife #SanJoseAttorney #FamilyRights #LegalServices #DivorceLaw #DomesticRelations #CustodyBattle #FamilyAdvocate #SanJoseLegal #BuildingFamilies #Adoption #BJFademLawOffice
In some states, you could accidentally find yourself married without a formal ceremony! 💍 Known as "common law marriage," this legal concept recognizes relationships as marital even without a license or official ceremony.

But don't worry, California doesn't recognize common law marriage. So, you can enjoy your relationship without the added legal complications.

It Just Takes a Call
fademlaw.com

#CommonLawMarriage #FunFact #BJFademLaw #SanJoseLawyer #LegalAdvice #DivorceSupport #ChildCustody #FamilyMediation #LawyerLife #SanJoseAttorney #FamilyRights #LegalServices #DivorceLaw #DomesticRelations #CustodyBattle #FamilyAdvocate #SanJoseLegal #BuildingFamilies #Adoption #BJFademLawOffice
🔹 Law with a Balanced Approach 🔹

At BJ Fadem & Associates, we bring a steady, thoughtful approach to each case, guided by decades of experience. Like a seasoned officer responding to a call, we assess every angle before deciding the best way forward. While we’re fully prepared to take your case to trial if necessary, our priority is to explore solutions that keep you in control and minimize stress and costs.

Meet the team with a legacy of dedication, commitment, and over 30 years of service. ⚖️

#LegalExpertise #BJFADEMLaw #ClientFirst #BalancedApproach #TrialReady #Since1990 #ExperiencedTeam #FamilyLaw #DivorceLaw #CustodyLaw #CivilLitigation #CaliforniaLaw #LawFirmLife #LegalAdvice #SanJoseLawyer #BayAreaAttorney #LawyersOfInstagram
This Veterans Day, we thank veterans and their families for their sacrifices. At BJ Fadem & Associates, APC, we’re here to support military families with family law needs, offering guidance that respects their unique challenges. 

We’re proud to stand with those who’ve served.	

It Just Takes a Call
fademlaw.com

#VeteransDay #MilitaryFamilies #FamilyLawSupport #HonoringService #FamilyLaw #SanJoseLawyer #LegalAdvice #DivorceSupport #ChildCustody #FamilyMediation #LawyerLife #SanJoseAttorney #FamilyRights #LegalServices #DivorceLaw #DomesticRelations #CustodyBattle #FamilyAdvocate #SanJoseLegal #BuildingFamilies #Adoption #BJFademLawOffice
Divorce is tough, especially if one spouse wants it and the other doesn’t. In California, however, only one spouse’s agreement is needed to file for divorce—meaning that if you’re ready to move forward, your spouse can’t prevent you from starting the process.

Steps to Take:

1️⃣ File a Petition: Begin by filing a divorce petition in court. Your spouse will be served, and the process will officially start.

2️⃣ Consider Mediation: Mediation can help resolve disputes about assets, custody, and other aspects to reach an agreement—even if your spouse isn’t initially on board.

3️⃣ Stay Calm and Focused: A reluctant spouse can make things difficult, but staying clear-headed and understanding your rights will help you get through it smoothly.

BJ Fadem Family Law is here to guide you through each step of the divorce process, even when it’s complicated. Let us help you take that first step with confidence. 💼

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Are you a grandparent worried about your grandchild's well-being? California law recognizes grandparents' rights to seek visitation or even custody under certain circumstances.

When might grandparents seek custody?

Parental Neglect or Abuse: If a parent is neglecting or abusing the child, grandparents may have grounds to seek custody.
Parental Unfitness: If a parent is unable to care for the child due to substance abuse, mental illness, or other factors, grandparents may be able to step in.
Significant Bond with the Grandchild: Grandparents who have a strong, established bond with their grandchild may be able to seek visitation or custody.

The Legal Process

The process of obtaining custody or visitation rights as a grandparent can be complex and emotionally draining. It's crucial to consult with an experienced family law attorney who can guide you through the legal steps and protect your rights.

At BJ Fadem & Associates, we understand the unique challenges grandparents face in custody battles. Our attorneys are committed to advocating for your rights and the best interests of your grandchild.

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