BJ Fadem & Associates, APC is a Certified Family Law Specialist

Our Law Firm Is Dedicated To Defending Your Rights

Creating a family is a wonderful experience and commitment. Our Attorneys will do the challenging legal work of the Adoption process for you. We will help you create the legal basis for your family. The Laws and issues regarding Adoption are complicated and ever-changing. Depending on your circumstances and needs, our Attorneys will advise you on how our law firm will handle this process on your behalf.

A new law in California allows the Court to acknowledge that a child may have more than just [2] legal or presumed parents. California will also acknowledge [2] or more parents who are of the same gender. Usually, if the parents are two [2] women, [1] the parent carries the child through a sperm donor. Some even choose to utilize an ovum from their partner. Two [2] male partners usually utilize a ‘surrogate’ to carry the child and choose which parent will donate the sperm. In that case, it is imperative that a ‘Surrogacy Agreement’ be drafted carefully wherein the chosen ‘surrogate’ has no parental rights and ensures that the child is relinquished to the ‘parents’ once the child is born. The best way to accomplish this is to utilize donated ovum – not the ‘surrogates’.

Many couples [whether heterosexual or homosexual] will opt for Adoption when conceiving a child on their own is impossible, improbable, and/or dangerous; or by choice.

Second Parent Adoption is an Adoption when one of the parents is the biological/legal parent of the child[ren] and their spouse/domestic partner chooses to become the legal parent of the child[ren]. This is different from an ‘independent’ Adoption in that the parents are either seeking a child already born that is not biologically or legally the child[ren] of either parent. Second Parent Adoption arises when the biological/legal parent re-marries and wants the new spouse to adopt the child[ren] or same-sex parents want to have a child[ren] together.

Your issue may be time-sensitive, please contact our Law Firm to set up your Initial Consultation.

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We file in all California Counties and Cities. In addition, BJ Fadem represents Clients throughout California, the United States, and foreign countries with regard to Hague Matters.

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Professional and Skilled. Great Law Office! Mr. BJ Fadem is a knowledgeable and skilled attorney with great experience. Thank you!
Larry

Mr Fadem is extremely knowledgeable of the laws. Felt he was very in tuned to my needs and fought those. Would definitely would use again. HIGHLY RECOMMEND

Sharon

I have worked with Mr. Fadem on many occasions and he is as intelligent, professional, and dedicated as they come. His knowledge of family law is outstanding and I refer him to anyone who needs a specialized and highly skilled family law attorney.

Emily

The reason I return time and time again is knowledgeable employees and the respect I am treated with. I also think that the noncondensending matter in which I was treated was a prime factor.

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Moving out can feel like the right step — especially when things are tense or uncertain.But in family law, that decision can carry implications that aren’t always obvious at the time.It can influence:• how parenting time is established• how financial responsibilities are viewed• how day-to-day roles are understood moving forwardThat doesn’t mean it’s the wrong decision.It just means it’s one worth understanding before taking that step.At Fadem Law, we help clients think through decisions like this with a clear, steady perspective — so nothing important is overlooked in the moment.📞 All it takes is a call.⚖️ Fadem Law | California Family Law & Mediation📌 Save this if you’re considering your next step.
It’s common to wait.Not because you don’t care —but because you’re unsure where to start, what to ask, or what the process even looks like.Many clients tell us they wish they had reached out sooner — not to act quickly, but to better understand their situation earlier.Waiting can sometimes create more uncertainty, not less.A conversation doesn’t commit you to anything.It simply gives you a clearer picture of your options.📞 All it takes is a call.⚖️ Fadem Law | Family Law & Mediation
Parenting plans are often created based on what works in the moment — current schedules, routines, and responsibilities.But life doesn’t stay the same.- Children grow.- Schedules shift.- Needs evolve.What feels workable today can become difficult to maintain later.At Fadem Law, we help clients approach parenting plans with both clarity and flexibility in mind — so decisions support not just today, but what comes next.📌 Save this if you’re navigating parenting decisions.⚖️ Fadem Law | Family Law & Mediation
Many family law decisions are made quickly — often in moments of stress, pressure, or uncertainty.What feels reasonable in the moment can carry long-term consequences, especially when it comes to parenting, finances, or future expectations.We often meet people after the fact who say,“I didn’t realize how much that decision would affect things later.”Taking a step back to understand your options first can make a meaningful difference in how everything unfolds.At Fadem Law, we help clients approach these decisions with clarity — not urgency.📌 Save this if you’re navigating a decision right now.⚖️ Fadem Law | California Family Law & Mediation
Moving out can feel like the right step — especially when things are tense or uncertain.But in family law, that decision can carry implications that aren’t always obvious at the time.It can influence:• how parenting time is established• how financial responsibilities are viewed• how day-to-day roles are understood moving forwardThat doesn’t mean it’s the wrong decision.It just means it’s one worth understanding before taking that step.At Fadem Law, we help clients think through decisions like this with a clear, steady perspective — so nothing important is overlooked in the moment.📞 All it takes is a call.⚖️ Fadem Law | California Family Law & Mediation📌 Save this if you’re considering your next step.
It’s common to wait.Not because you don’t care —but because you’re unsure where to start, what to ask, or what the process even looks like.Many clients tell us they wish they had reached out sooner — not to act quickly, but to better understand their situation earlier.Waiting can sometimes create more uncertainty, not less.A conversation doesn’t commit you to anything.It simply gives you a clearer picture of your options.📞 All it takes is a call.⚖️ Fadem Law | Family Law & Mediation
Parenting plans are often created based on what works in the moment — current schedules, routines, and responsibilities.But life doesn’t stay the same.- Children grow.- Schedules shift.- Needs evolve.What feels workable today can become difficult to maintain later.At Fadem Law, we help clients approach parenting plans with both clarity and flexibility in mind — so decisions support not just today, but what comes next.📌 Save this if you’re navigating parenting decisions.⚖️ Fadem Law | Family Law & Mediation
Many family law decisions are made quickly — often in moments of stress, pressure, or uncertainty.What feels reasonable in the moment can carry long-term consequences, especially when it comes to parenting, finances, or future expectations.We often meet people after the fact who say,“I didn’t realize how much that decision would affect things later.”Taking a step back to understand your options first can make a meaningful difference in how everything unfolds.At Fadem Law, we help clients approach these decisions with clarity — not urgency.📌 Save this if you’re navigating a decision right now.⚖️ Fadem Law | California Family Law & Mediation
You don’t need to have everything figured out before reaching out.Many people wait because they think they need a plan first —but in reality, most clarity comes after the conversation.Whether you’re considering mediation or simply trying to understand your options, the first step can be as simple as asking questions.We’re here to listen, guide, and help you move forward at your own pace.📞 All it takes is a call.⚖️ Fadem Law | Family Law & Mediation
One of the earliest decisions people face is how to move forward — through mediation or through court.There’s no single right answer.The right path depends on your situation, your goals, and the level of structure or flexibility needed.Mediation can offer a more collaborative approach.Court can provide clarity and structure when needed.Understanding both options early can help you move forward with more confidence and less second-guessing.At Fadem Law, we help clients think through these decisions in a way that aligns with their long-term goals.📞 All it takes is a call.⚖️ Fadem Law | California Family Law & Mediation📌 Save this if you’re at the beginning of a family law decision.
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