BJ Fadem & Associates, APC is a Certified Family Law Specialist

Our Law Firm Is Dedicated To Defending Your Rights

You may never have thought that all those Valentines’ Cards, special love notes, emails, texts, and birthday cards would either be useful or haunt you. Who would think that not getting married would become such a nightmare? Not getting married is now the norm in this modern world. Having a partner, girlfriend, boyfriend, or who you called your partner in life, now has become an issue in a Court Law! Did you just pack up your belongings and attempt to just start over? Did you ask they/her/him to just move out? Then, all of a sudden, you are faced with the legal action of Palimony and you are shocked, dismayed, shattered, and in total disbelief! Your whole world is now turned upside down! How can this be possible when you did not marry your partner?

Cohabitating without marriage is very common in our contemporary age. However, the ending of this relationship and a person’s legal rights to Child Custody & Visitation, Child Support, and Property rights, among others, are not commonly known.

The first Palimony case was Marvin vs Marvin whereas: Michelle Triola spent several years living with actor Lee Marvin. After their breakup, she legally adopted the surname “Marvin” despite never having been married to him and claimed he had promised to support her for the rest of her life. In the end, the California Supreme Court ruled that Michelle Triola had not proven the existence of a contract between herself and Lee Marvin that gave her an interest in his property. Thus, the common law rule applied to the situation without alteration, and she took away from the relationship and the household what she brought to it.

The Court went on to explain that while the state abolished Common Law Marriage in 1896, California Law, however, does, in fact, recognize non-martial relationship contracts or agreements between people. These contracts may be express or implied, oral or written, but they must be provable in any case. Eventually, the California Court of Appeal ruled that since Michelle Triola and Lee Marvin never had such a contract, she was not entitled to any money.
In addition, even though you may not be married; or you may not be on the “deed” to real property, there may be a ‘community’ interest in real property if, in fact, it can be proven that there was an ‘agreement’ or ‘promise’ that the home was both of yours.

The Courts decide matters of Palimony case by case and time is of the essence.

Your issue may be time sensitive, please contact our Law Firm to set-up your Initial Consultation.

Please read the FAQs’ prior to your Initial Consultation.

We file in all California Counties and Cities. In addition, BJ Fadem represents Clients throughout California, the United States and foreign countries with regard to Hague Matters.

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I have worked with Mr. Fadem on many occasions and he is as intelligent, professional, and dedicated as they come. His knowledge of family law is outstanding and I refer him to anyone who needs a specialized and highly skilled family law attorney.

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Did you know? In California, either parent can request to legally change a child’s last name—but it requires court approval and sometimes both parents’ consent.

This often comes up during adoption, custody disputes, or when a parent wants to establish or reaffirm a deeper bond. The court's focus? Always the best interests of the child—not just what the parents want.

At FADEM, we’ve guided countless families through name changes as part of broader legal transitions like second-parent adoption, custody agreements, or divorce.

Have questions about changing a child’s name or updating legal documents? We’re here to help.

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Today is the International Day of Families — and we’re here to remind you:
Family isn’t defined by blood. It’s defined by love, care, and commitment.

From LGBTQ+ couples to chosen families, guardians, and step-parents — California law has tools to protect your rights, but you have to know how to use them.

Need help understanding your legal options?
📞 Let’s talk about your family’s future.

It Just Takes a Call 
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Family law matters often involve intricate details—financial records, expert testimony, evolving regulations. While many solo attorneys do their best, a collaborative team can offer:

🔹 Diverse Expertise: Specialists in adoption, custody, support, and more all contribute their insights.
🔹 Ongoing Training: Regular in-house workshops keep our team current on California law and best practices.
🔹 Resource Depth: Access to research assistants, investigators, and expert witnesses ensures no stone is left unturned.

At FADEM, our multi-disciplinary approach means your case benefits from the combined strength of seasoned professionals. For complicated family matters, trust the team that has the bandwidth—and the experience—to handle every angle. Let’s explore your options together.

It Just Takes a Call 
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#FADEMLaw #TeamApproach #FamilyLawExperts #CollaborativeLaw #LegalExcellence #LegalHelpCA #LegalProtection #SanJoseLawyer #LegalAdvice #DivorceSupport #ChildCustody #FamilyMediation #LawyerLife #SanJoseAttorney #FamilyRights #LegalServices #DivorceLaw #DomesticRelations #CustodyBattle #FamilyAdvocate #SanJoseLegal #BuildingFamilies #Adoption #FademLawOffice
While temporary support can follow local guideline calculators, permanent or long-term spousal support is where things get nuanced — judges consider over a dozen factors like the length of the marriage, each party’s earning capacity, and even the standard of living during the relationship.

⚖️ What’s more? Judges have broad discretion. That’s why skilled legal guidance matters.

At BJ Fadem & Associates, we help you understand your rights, and protect your future.

Thinking about separation or divorce? Let’s talk.

It Just Takes a Call 
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Did you know? In California, either parent can request to legally change a child’s last name—but it requires court approval and sometimes both parents’ consent.

This often comes up during adoption, custody disputes, or when a parent wants to establish or reaffirm a deeper bond. The court's focus? Always the best interests of the child—not just what the parents want.

At FADEM, we’ve guided countless families through name changes as part of broader legal transitions like second-parent adoption, custody agreements, or divorce.

Have questions about changing a child’s name or updating legal documents? We’re here to help.

It Just Takes a Call 
fademlaw.com 

#FamilyLawFact #ChildNameChange #CustodySupport #CaliforniaFamilyLaw #FADEMLaw #LegalFacts #ParentingAndLaw #LegalProtection #SanJoseLawyer #LegalAdvice #DivorceSupport #ChildCustody #FamilyMediation #LawyerLife #SanJoseAttorney #FamilyRights #LegalServices #DivorceLaw #DomesticRelations #CustodyBattle #FamilyAdvocate #SanJoseLegal #BuildingFamilies #Adoption #FademLawOffice
Today is the International Day of Families — and we’re here to remind you:
Family isn’t defined by blood. It’s defined by love, care, and commitment.

From LGBTQ+ couples to chosen families, guardians, and step-parents — California law has tools to protect your rights, but you have to know how to use them.

Need help understanding your legal options?
📞 Let’s talk about your family’s future.

It Just Takes a Call 
fademlaw.com 

#YouDeserveSupport #ChosenFamilyIsFamily #FamilyLawMatters #FademLaw #LegalHelpCA #LegalProtection #SanJoseLawyer #LegalAdvice #DivorceSupport #ChildCustody #FamilyMediation #LawyerLife #SanJoseAttorney #FamilyRights #LegalServices #DivorceLaw #DomesticRelations #CustodyBattle #FamilyAdvocate #SanJoseLegal #BuildingFamilies #Adoption #FademLawOffice
Family law matters often involve intricate details—financial records, expert testimony, evolving regulations. While many solo attorneys do their best, a collaborative team can offer:

🔹 Diverse Expertise: Specialists in adoption, custody, support, and more all contribute their insights.
🔹 Ongoing Training: Regular in-house workshops keep our team current on California law and best practices.
🔹 Resource Depth: Access to research assistants, investigators, and expert witnesses ensures no stone is left unturned.

At FADEM, our multi-disciplinary approach means your case benefits from the combined strength of seasoned professionals. For complicated family matters, trust the team that has the bandwidth—and the experience—to handle every angle. Let’s explore your options together.

It Just Takes a Call 
fademlaw.com 

#FADEMLaw #TeamApproach #FamilyLawExperts #CollaborativeLaw #LegalExcellence #LegalHelpCA #LegalProtection #SanJoseLawyer #LegalAdvice #DivorceSupport #ChildCustody #FamilyMediation #LawyerLife #SanJoseAttorney #FamilyRights #LegalServices #DivorceLaw #DomesticRelations #CustodyBattle #FamilyAdvocate #SanJoseLegal #BuildingFamilies #Adoption #FademLawOffice
While temporary support can follow local guideline calculators, permanent or long-term spousal support is where things get nuanced — judges consider over a dozen factors like the length of the marriage, each party’s earning capacity, and even the standard of living during the relationship.

⚖️ What’s more? Judges have broad discretion. That’s why skilled legal guidance matters.

At BJ Fadem & Associates, we help you understand your rights, and protect your future.

Thinking about separation or divorce? Let’s talk.

It Just Takes a Call 
fademlaw.com 

#SpousalSupport #CaliforniaFamilyLaw #DivorceSupport #FamilyLawSpecialist #KnowYourRights #AlimonyFacts #BJFADEMlaw #LegalHelpCA #LegalProtection #SanJoseLawyer #LegalAdvice #DivorceSupport #ChildCustody #FamilyMediation #LawyerLife #SanJoseAttorney #FamilyRights #LegalServices #DivorceLaw #DomesticRelations #CustodyBattle #FamilyAdvocate #SanJoseLegal #BuildingFamilies #Adoption #FademLawOffice
A child custody evaluation can seem daunting, but being well-prepared can make all the difference. Here are some tips to help you confidently navigate the process:

🔹 Document Daily Routines: Keep detailed records of your involvement in your child's life—school, activities, and healthcare.
🔹 Keep Communication Records: Save emails, texts, and logs that show your dedication to co-parenting.
🔹 Be Honest and Calm: Approach evaluations with transparency and composure; your authenticity is key.
🔹 Prioritize Your Child’s Best Interests: Always align your actions and statements with your child's well-being.

Fadem Law is here to guide you through every step of the custody process, ensuring your rights and your child's best interests are protected. Let us help you prepare for a successful custody evaluation.

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That’s right! Under California law, children 14 years or older can express their custody preferences—and the court must consider them if it's in the child’s best interest.

Their voice matters, but it’s just one part of the bigger picture. At Fadem Law, we make sure every custody case puts the child’s well-being first. 💙

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